Ungabheka isitayela futhi ube nemfashini nsuku zonke!

Ngakho-ke ufuna ukufunda ukuthi ubukeka kanjani umuhle njengoSandra Bullock ku-Miss Congeniality lapho ephuma embozwe amabala kagrisi futhi ecosha izindlebe zakhe esidlangalaleni abe ingqikithi yobuhle nomusa (amaphutha amaningi noma amancane)... Izindaba ezimnandi ukuthi akudingekile ukuba ube yi-ejenti ye-FBI eyimfihlo noma uqashe ithimba lonke lababhali bezitayela ukuze bafunde ukuthi ungenza kanjani isitayela.

Phela, awudingi ngisho nokuba nemali eningi! Kulesi sihloko, ngizokukhombisa ukuthi ungaba kanjani isitayela nemfashini nsuku zonke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isabelomali sakho!

Izimpawu zentokazi enhle

Ngaphambi kokubona indlela yokunikeza ubuhle, ake sichaze ukuthi buyini ubuhle. Isichazamazwi sichaza ubuhle kanje "Ikhwalithi yokuba nomusa nenhle ngokubukeka noma imikhuba.» Futhi njengoba ufunda lo musho, ungacabanga usaziwayo olingana nale ncazelo efanayo: u-Kerry Washington, u-Taylor Swift, u-Diana Ross, u-Audrey Hepburn. Ingabe lukhona uphawu lokuthi owesifazane obukekayo ubukeka kanjani?

1. Abukeka emuhle futhi ehlanganiswe kahle

Ngizoba ngowokuqala ukuvuma ukuthi ukubukeka akuyona yonke into… ubuhle bungaphezu nje kwesikhumba, yonke into. Kodwa akunakuphikwa ukuthi esinye sezibonakaliso zokuqala zowesifazane omuhle ukubonakala kwakhe.

Wonke umuntu osesitayeleni engihlangana naye, noma ngabe ku-inthanethi noma mathupha, uhlala ebukeka ehlanzekile futhi ecocekile. Unesitayela esingaphezu kwamabhulukwe e-yoga (#coupable).

Futhi enkambweni yamanje yama-tracksuits nokusebenza usekhaya, kulula ukukhohlwa ukuthi kukhona ezinye izingubo ezifana namajini, izingubo zokugqoka namabhulukwe ahlanganisiwe. Lona umbono wami siqu.

Ngenhlanhla, sekuya kuba lula ukuthola izingubo ezibukeka kahle futhi ezisesitayeleni, kuyilapho futhi zenziwe ngezindwangu ezikhululekile nezikhululekile. Ngenkathi ufunda ukugqoka kahle, ungakhohlwa ngokunethezeka.

2. Baphinde babe nesimo sengqondo esisezingeni eliphezulu nesiqondile.

Kuyangimangaza ukuthola ukuthi enye yezimpawu ezibonisa kakhulu intokazi enhle isimo sayo sengqondo. Akunandaba ukuthi ubukeka isitayela kanjani; Uma uphatha abantu kabi, awuyena ngempela umuntu osezingeni.

Abesifazane abahle bayabakha abanye, hhayi ababhidlizi. Uyama, aqaphele lapho engena ekamelweni, futhi azi ukubaluleka kwakhe; Akafuni ukuqinisekiswa komunye umuntu.

Ngakho-ke ake ngikubuze ... ukhuluma kanjani wedwa? Ucabangani ngendlela ophatha ngayo abanye? Uma ugxeka kakhulu kunokuphakamisa, cabanga ukwenza inselele yezinsuku ezingama-30 yokuzithanda. Kungase kukusize uzizwe unesitayela ngendlela ozokwenza ngayo lapho uqeda lesi sihloko.

Nazi izindlela ezingu-6 ezibalulekile zokuba nesitayela nsuku zonke:

Ukufunda ukuba nesitayela nobuhle kusho ukuba nesitayela esincane nesilula. Akukhona mayelana nokuba phezulu, ukugqama noma imfashini. Umgomo wakho uwukuba ukubukeka kwakho kuhlale isikhathi eside. Nansi indlela yokwenza.

1. Isitayela sakho siqu

Okokuqala: kufanele unqume ukuthi yiziphi izingubo ozithanda ngempela. Cha, angikhulumi ngalokho okubona kukho Instagram noma yini ethrendayo njengamanje, njenge-Crocs, i-cheetah print, noma amabhuzu afika emadolweni. Ngikhuluma ngezitayela namasilhouette ongawagqoka noma ngabe yini esemfashinini. Lezi yizo ozithanda kakhulu, ezihambisana nesitayela sakho nomzimba wakho.

Incwadi engangivame ukuthola isitayela sami somuntu siqu iyona eyangisiza I-Closet Ekhethiwe Por Anushka Rees. Kufundwa ngendlela yencwadi yokusebenzela egxile ekusizeni ukuthi uthole okuthandayo, ongakuthandi, amasilhouette ayintandokazi, namaphalethi emibala, ukuze ukwazi ukwakha kalula ikhabethe lephupho.

Uma ufuna usizo ngesitayela sakho somuntu siqu, ngincoma ukuthi usiqashe emtapweni wolwazi wakho. Thatha isivivinyo sethu sesitayela somuntu siqu ukuze uthole okwengeziwe

2. Ukuze uthole ukubukeka okuhle, qiniseka ukuthi izingubo zakho zilula

Uma usunciphise izitayela zakho eziyintandokazi namaphalethi ombala, cabanga ukwakha ikhabethe elincane lapho ugcina khona izingcezu ozithandayo kuphela futhi ongagqoka ngokuphindaphindiwe ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukene. Kungumqondo omuhle ukugcina imibala engathathi hlangothi ihlangene, njengomnyama, ukhilimu, kanye nokumpunga.

Ungaba nezingxenye ezi-5 eziphezulu nezi-5 ezingezansi. Ngalezo ziqongo eziyi-10 nje, usunezinketho zezingubo ezingama-25. Lona ingqikithi ye-capsule wardrobe. Uma i-top kuphela oyithengile ihambisana nebhulukwe elilodwa kuphela, unengubo eyodwa kuphela. Uma ufana nami, akukuningi lokho.

Ngakho-ke uma uzama ukuba nesitayela kubhajethi, bheka zonke izingubo ezintsha oza nazo ekhaya. Uma kuyihembe, ngokwesibonelo, dlula ngokwengqondo wonke amasokisi onawo ngaphambi kokulithenga ukuze ubone ukuthi zingaki izinhlanganisela zezimpahla ongayenza. Kungcono ukuba namapheya angaphezu kwelilodwa.

Uhlobo lwezimpahla engizithandayo lwe-minimalist I-Vetta Capsule. Ungakha ikhabethe lakho le-capsule ngezingcezu ezinhlanu zenkampani 30 Inhlanganisela yezingubo ezihlukene. Nakuba angazi ngempela ukuthi isebenza kanjani, ilungele labo abafuna ikhabethe elihle nelincane.

3. Khetha ikhwalithi kunobuningi

Ukugqoka kahle kusho ukukhetha ikhwalithi kunobuningi. Ngo-$12 ijezi, ungaya ku-Forever 21 noma isitolo semfashini esisheshayo esifanayo futhi uthole amajezi amahlanu. Kodwa uma nje uwageza, azoba amaphilisi, adabuke, futhi ashwabane. Yingakho kuthiwa "amaphilisi nezinyembezi" Imikhiqizo yemfashini emithathu kwemihlanu esheshayo igcina isendaweni yokulahla imfucuza ngonyaka.)

Cabanga ngezindleko zokuguga ngakunye lapho uthenga okuthile ngokuzayo. Kubiza u-$6 ukugqoka ijezi lika-$12 kabili. Kuzokubiza kuphela u-$2 ukugqoka ijezi elingu-$100 izikhathi ezingu-50. Lokho nje ingxenye yesithathu yezindleko!

4. Sebenzisa izimonyo ezincane

Ungaphinda ubukeke uyinkimbinkimbi ngaphandle kokugqoka izimonyo. Inzuzo esobala kakhulu ukuthi ikongela isikhathi: awudingi ukuchitha ihora wenza izimonyo zakho ngenkathi uzama ukuyisa izingane zakho esikoleni. Lezi ezinye zezinzuzo ezimbalwa kweziningi.

• Ungagcina isikhala endlini yokugezela nasemthwalweni wakho uma uhamba.
• Eqela ngaphezulu
• Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi uthole izinto ezinempilo, ezisezingeni eliphezulu kunalezo ezishibhile eziqukethe amakhemikhali ayingozi.
• Lokhu kuzokusiza ube nokubukeka okungapheli, noma ngabe isizini yonyaka.

5. Yonga ngezinto ezisizayo

Uma uthanda ubucwebe besitatimende, awekho amahloni kuwo. Isihluthulelo ukukhetha izinto ezimbalwa zekhwalithi ozithanda ngempela - futhi ezifanelana kahle neningi lekhabethe lakho - kunokuba ube namadrowa agcwele ubucwebe ongabugqoki kancane.

Okuthandwayo komuntu siqu akuhlangene nobucwebe. Ngincamela indandatho yomshado yegolide elula nethambile. Umgexo omncane webha yegolide ongahambisana nayo yonke into. Engikuthandayo ukubhoboza amakhala okulula, ngakho nginamacici amancane egolide. Kufanele ube nezingcezu ezimbalwa kuphela ozithandayo. Kufanele futhi zihambisane nekhabethe lakho nesitayela.

6. Khumbula ukuthi ubulula buhlala busemfashinini

ULeonardo Davinci wake wathi, "Ubulula buyinkimbinkimbi enkulu" Lokhu bekungeke kube yiqiniso ukwedlula uma kuziwa kumfashini. Enye yezinto engizithanda kakhulu ngezitayela zikanokusho ukuthi zihlala zilula. Zenziwe ngezingcezu zemfashini ezingaphelelwa yisikhathi, njengejazi lomsele lakudala, ingubo encane emnyama, ihembe elimhlophe ... izingubo ezingalokothi ziphume ngesitayela.

Lokhu akugcini nje konga imali, kodwa futhi kusindisa isikhathi sokuthenga izingubo. Iphinde yehlise inani lezinto ezingadingekile. Lezi ezinye zezinzuzo ezimbalwa kweziningi. Kulula ukuba nesitayela nsuku zonke ngokuba lula ngesitayela sakho.

Yini okufanele uyenze uma unesabelomali esilinganiselwe?

Akudingeki uchithe ithani lemali ezimpahleni zomklami ukuze ubukeke futhi uzizwe umuhle. Kungenzeka ukuthi udale isitayela sakho somuntu ngamunye ngaphandle kokuchitha imali eningi. Nawa amathiphu ami angcono kakhulu okuphila ngesitayela kubhajethi.

Thenga amasekeni ukuze wonge imali futhi ube nemfashini

Imfihlo yami enkulu yokugqoka kahle ngesabelomali ukuthenga amasekeni. Uma ngithola into enenani eliphezulu engiyithanda kakhulu, ngivame ukucinga ngayo Poshmark, I-Tradesy, EBayUngakwazi futhi ukuyibiza i-thredUP Ukuze ubone ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuyithola ngesandla sesibili. Futhi ngokuvamile umuntu oyithengisayo uyigqoke kanye noma kabili kuphela, ngakho-ke uthola into entsha ngengxenyana yenani.

Eqinisweni, leli yisu engangilisebenzisa lapho ngifuna ingubo yami yomshado ngo-2015. Ingubo enenani lika-$ 1.100 yangibamba iso lami, kodwa ngagcina ngiyithenga ku-Tradesy nge-$ 500 kuphela. Le ngubo yayigqokwe kanye kuphela. Lapho ngihlela uhambo lwami, umdayisi wayehlanganisa nepitikoti elihambisanayo nebhande Umshado oshibhile.

Chitha imali ukuze uchithe ikhabethe lakho

Uma uqala ukugqoka kahle, ungase ubone ukuthi ikhabethe lakho ligcwele izinto ongakaze uzigqoke ngaphambili. Lokhu kungase kube yingoba azisakulingani, ngoba zenzelwe ukuphila okucatshangelwayo okungeyona eyakho, noma ngenxa yokuthi azisafanelani nesitayela sakho.

Lesi yisikhathi esihle sokulahla izingubo zakho futhi uchithe impilo yakho uthuthukise izingubo zakho futhi uthole imali eyengeziwe. Ungase futhi ubeke imigomo yemfashini engeke iphule ibhange uma uzama ngempela ukunamathela kubhajethi yakho.

Ungazizwa ukahle futhi ubukeke umuhle nsuku zonke.

Ukufunda ukuba nomuzwa wesitayela akudingi i-ounce yodumo noma ithani lemali. Ungathola usizo ngokwenza isabelomali sekhabethe elisha elinesitayela Bhalisela isifundo sebhajethi samahhala. Ungaphuthelwa yi-podcast ethi The Smart Girl Knows Isiteshi se-YouTube Ukuze uthole amathiphu amaningi ngokuphila okunempilo, chofoza lapha